Love, loving and staying in love.

by Waju

Happy Valentine’s Day, friend.

Even though I always talk about
business, today I want to share
my thoughts on love, loving and
staying in love.

If the stories are true, then
Bros Valeh was a kind of badass.

To live and pay the ultimate
price for what you believe is
a very rare thing in today’s
world.

It seems to me that having a
relationship for the very
long haul is the hardest thing
ever.

As someone who has been married
twice *facepalm*, I know it can
be very hard…even if you’re nice
and all that -like I was.

So where are you today in love?

Have you found someone interesting?

Or someone you actually, erm, love?

Or one you want to keep around for
a bit?

PERHAPS, you have someone you want
to spend the rest of your life
with, eh??

Anyway, here’s my understanding of why
relationships fail…

It is scientific. As a biochemist,
I know that all those “goosey feelings”
are the effect of hormones coursing
through your blood.

When you’re apart, and you remember
bae, the hormones flow again…making
you feel like being with them all day,
chatting into the night, and banging
each other like 3 times daily.

It’s true, right?

Now, here’s the thing…

Those chemicals either stop flowing
after a year, or your body is now
so used to it, that you don’t feel
“goosey feelings” again.

Its like the silence after a
house party, and everyone is gone…

It is this point that most people
interpret wrongly, thinking the love
is gone.

But it ain’t…

First, love is not a feeling…
It’s a thing you do that creates
the feeling.

Secondly, I’ll share something I’ve
learned in my almost 4 decades on
earth.

Pay attention…

If you want to reap more than you sow,
Simply play the forex/stock market…
But don’t bring that mindset into
relationships.

The only way to get a lot back
from your relationship is to give
a whole lot more than you expect back.

And that’s what made dear St. Valentine
unforgettable till today.

Here’s a fact: LOVE WILL PROBABLY
KILL MORE PEOPLE THAN BULLETS..
BUT NOBODY WHO GIVES THEIR ALL
EVER REGRETS IT.

And that’s my message to you
today, my dear, precious friend.

Give it more than you expect from it.

Don’t be an anal-retentive wuss
(Wuss means coward -summarily).

Wusses suck, and worse -they
produce more wusses, and thats
the world’s biggest problem today.

Thats all.

Stay in love.

I love you too.

Waju.

PS- The Valentine Offer closes
tomorrow -no longer friday.
It goes back to N120,000.
Secure your slot now. Issokay.

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